Dear God,
I want to surrender every aspect of my life to you. But the routine and mundane puts boundaries around my joy and squelches it. I settle into the day-to-day tasks that continue to repeat and lose sight of you. Help me to remember whose I am and the mercy and grace that comes with being a chosen daughter of a holy God. Amen
What books of the bible do you gravitate to? For me it’s the middle of the new testament. Books like Galatians, Ephesians, and Colossians.
When discussing this with my husband this morning, he asked me why I gravitate to those books. After some thought, I came to the conclusion that it’s because I can make those scriptures more about me than Jesus. The book of Ephesians for example starts out with Paul telling us about our identity in Christ. He then goes on to teach us what to do with who we are in Christ. Ephesians 1:4 says, “Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him.” That is encouraging and reassuring scripture. It’s also very easy to make it about us, and not Christ.
I am guilty of choosing the easy stuff in scripture. But we need the hard stuff too; maybe even more.
I’m challenging myself to study scripture that is hard. Maybe that means dissecting a chapter from Isaiah, or Revelation. What ever that might mean for you, let’s work on finding Christ in scripture and getting to know more about Him so we can be more like Him.
Let’s make it less about us, and more about Who’s we are.
My daughter spent 2 years living at a residential treatment center. Her testimony is worthy of a post by itself; so I’ll just say she needed some guidance beyond what we could give her at home.
The girls at this treatment center are surrounded by the word of God. They are counseled daily on giving God control. One of the concepts that was used with my daughter was writing “thankfuls”. She would be required to keep a journal and each day she would sit down for 15 minutes and list things she was thankful for. When my daughter told me about this, I was intrigued. So I tried it. Wow, does it change your perspective! It’s such a simple thing. But being thankful really helps keep our minds and hearts focused on how blessed we are.
What if we took time every day to write down 5 things we are thankful for? The catch is that you can’t repeat anything. Would you run out of things to be thankful for? I think it would be hard, but I bet there are far more things to be thankful for than things we wish would go away.
There’s a book by Ann Voskamp titled “A Thousand Gifts”. In it, Ann guides us to write down 1000 little things we are thankful for. You can learn more about it here: http://www.annvoskamp.com.
I have learned to find joy in so many little things. As I sit here writing, I can easily touch 5 things I am thankful for: my sweet furbaby Bella, the fleece blanket covering my legs, my bible, the ottoman that allows me to elevate my sore feet, and the pizza rolls I’m having for dinner, (don’t judge me).
What about you? Have you done your thankfuls today?
Share some random things in the comments that your thankful for!
In my devotions this past week, we have been looking at spiritual disciplines. Let me just say it’s been eye opening and a bit convicting! Bible intake is the most important spiritual discipline because it enhances all the other ones. And bible intake is the one spiritual discipline that I struggle with the most. I get distracted so easily.
One of the questions during my reflection time was, “Does reading the word of God feel more like a duty or a delight?” If I’m being honest, I have to say it feels like a duty. Why? We have THE WORD OF GOD at our fingertips, and we (I) feel like it is a duty rather than an honor to study it?
Psalm 19:7-11 says the word of God is perfect, right, pure, clean, true, sweeter than honey. Yet not only do we not turn to it’s words, we look elsewhere for answers.
Let me segway for just a moment. What are your idols? Have you ever really looked at what you gravitate to for comfort and satisfaction? I have thought about this and studied this a bit. I have found that there are 3 major idols in my life: laziness, approval, and shopping. Now those are not specifically named in the scriptures, but all three are things that I have willingly replaced God with. At first, I didn’t give it a second thought. If I wanted to sleep in on Sunday morning, I justified it by saying “I can worship at home”. But if I wanted to go shopping on Sunday morning, you can bet I’ll be up and out the door without hesitation. Approval – that’s a tough one. Within the first chapter of the bible, Genesis 1:27, it says God made us in HIS own image. So our identity is anchored in Him. Yet we (I) still seek validation and approval from people. That’s just silly.
The things that we idolize in the world, are the things that distract us from practicing spiritual disciplines. Once we get a rope around those, (which is a constant daily battle), practicing spiritual disciplines can become more habitual.
What can you do today that will help you move toward more routine practice in spiritual disciplines?
This past week has been rough. Actually the past couple of months have been rough. Don’t get me wrong, there have been a multitude of blessings in the muck, but sometimes the muck turns into quicksand before we realize it. All of a sudden we are up to our necks with “stuff”. Is there a better way to navigate life than to blindly sink into the muck? I think there is. It’s simple really. Spend time daily with God and sort it all out.
I am guilty of skipping time with God. I say little prayers over the course of the day like, “Okay God, help me to be loving; or “Hey God could you just NOT put that person in my personal space today?” And while there’s not really anything wrong with that, it’s not all God wants from us. He wants our hearts. Yes, he already knows what’s in our hearts, but He wants US to evaluate what is in our hearts and lay the yucky stuff at his feet. Likewise, we need to praise Him for all the good stuff. Because, all of it is ultimately good, right? ALL OF IT.
Romans 8:28 says ALL THINGS work together for GOOD. It doesn’t say, “All the fun things”, or “All the things that feel good”. It says ALL things. That means even the things that don’t make any sense. Even the things that really REALLY hurt.
There is a lot to unpack from this one verse. But the bottom line is this: When we trust HIM, when we follow Him, and when we live to serve Him and please Him, we can have peace in knowing that all of life’s circumstances circle back to His purpose. And we know that His purpose is far better and fulfilling than any purpose we could invent on our own..
I recently read a post on a sister blog where the analogy of baking cookies was used to explain Romans 8:28. When we bake cookies, we use all kinds of ingredients. Some of them are tasty, like chocolate chips, sugar, and peanut butter. And some of them are not so tasty, like oil, raw eggs, and flour. But when mixed together, all those ingredients create a delicious treat, with a pleasing aroma.
Have faith that your life will ultimately become a pleasing aroma to our gracious GOD.
Find true joy in life – even in the yucky stuff!
Read that again. It’s so true isn’t it? When we have needs or wants, God uses those times to work on our hearts. When we have trials, and frustrations, and grief, and fear…God uses those times to work on our hearts. When we have a disagreement with our spouse, a parent, or one of our children, God can use that to work on our hearts. He uses job loss, disaster, pet loss, financial burdens and the list goes on. If there is anything in life that is customized to your specific needs, it’s God’s hand in your HEART work.
Sometimes, He just does the work, and we don’t understand it. Other times, we have to let Him do the work and we completely understand it. In all cases of HEART work, we have to trust Him.
So here is a challenge for all of us. The next time we set out to perform a task, whether big or small, lets call it heart work instead of hard work; because everything we do can be an opportunity to grow.
What HEART work are you doing today?
Seriously though, how is it? Is this the eye of the storm? Or is it the calm after the storm? Could it be that what you are going through isn’t as bad as it seems? What if you change your perspective? Look at your current situation and pull all the good things from it that you can. Maybe it isn’t really a storm at all. Maybe it’s just….life.
Listen, no one ever said life would always be easy. Jesus certainly never said it, and it was definitely not always easy for him. Can you imagine living your life knowing that one day you would be beaten, mocked, torchered and murdered? Jesus knew his closest friends and followers were going to betray him. Yet, Judas sat at the table and ate with all the others. And while Jesus is the ultimate example of holiness, we can also look at the apostle Paul. He left a life of what he thought was excitement and purpose. And when he turned and followed Jesus, he was mocked and imprisoned for it; but he remained faithful and continued to mentor and guide individuals and churches. He was able to do this because his ultimate goal was to please the Lord. He had hope in things far beyond his understanding and faith in God’s provisions.
Look at your current circumstances from a different perspective. Have faith in knowing that God truly is using this or will use this for good. Give it to Him and stay diligent in your faith and service to a living and gracious King.
We put so much value in how we spend our time don’t we? Society tends to lead us into believing that our identity is based on how we choose to spend our lives. Our careers, our jobs, the clubs we belong to, and how we are accepted by our peers are all factors that we use to establish our place. We let our emotions guide us in deciding what kind of people we are, or what kind of people we want to be; and when we are not happy with the result, we take it upon ourselves to make what we believe are the necessary changes. This is a vicious cycle. It’s a cycle that never ends. You see, we will never find true peace and contentment in WHO we are until we understand WHOSE we are.
If we take away our hobbies, our jobs, our relationships, and our responsibilities, what is left? Take it a bit further and take away our homes, cars, and even our families. What do you have left? Who are you at your very core? Are you able to actually answer that question?
I can answer it with confidence, and the exciting thing is….this is true for you too! The bible uses a lot of great adjectives to describe who we are in Christ; We are blessed (Psalm 1:1-3). We are appreciated and loved (1 John 3:1). We are saved, (Romans 10:9-10, John 5:24). We are forgiven, (Ephesians 4:32, 1 John 1:9). We are loved, (Romans 8:37-39).
Those are some pretty encouraging words to describe us! And that is not all of them! We are made holy, set apart, adopted, saints, victorious, chosen, redeemed, justified, and the list goes on and on.
Be encouraged in knowing Whose you are. Don’t let circumstances in your job, your home or your life let you believe that this is all there is. In Christ, there is so much more. Aim to please the One Who created you, and you will find peace and comfort.
Does your work environment feel like a spiritual battleground at times? Mine sure does! There are plenty of times when I am peaceful and just doing my thing, then there are times (like today) when the devil comes at me swinging.
Honestly, he ( lower case “h” intentionally) attacks like a parasite; and if we aren’t aware of his games, he will slither his way into every nook and cranny of our mind.
God has the power to stop Satan’s slithering with the clap of His hands, but He doesn’t always. Why would God allow us to experience such turmoil and confusion? In 1 Peter, 4:12-13 it says “beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you, which comes upon you for your testing, as though some strange thing were happening to you; but to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing, so that also at the revelation of His glory you may rejoice with exultation. He allows it for the same reason that as parents, we step back and let our children make mistakes. It is the best way to learn tough lessons and to grow strong character.
The struggle I have been having lately is that creepy little lie that I am not good enough. I don’t have the right personality to be liked. I am not approachable. People avoid me intentionally. Satan has been trying really hard lately to get me to believe that; and I’m telling you, IT. IS. SO. HARD. to push those lies aside. These thoughts have left me feeling lonely and rejected.
When we really latch on to WHO’s we are, it’s much easier to accept WHO we are. I know that in my head, but I can’t seem to get it into the depths of my heart where it becomes an instinctive value. The other truth that I know is that it doesn’t matter what people think, whether they like me or don’t like me, or even what they say about me. That is also an extremely hard truth to wrap my head around. No matter how hard I try, it is a constant battle. 
I am constantly keeping my thoughts in check and telling myself “It doesn’t matter Angela!” What does matter is what God thinks of me. Are my actions and words pleasing Him? That is all that matters.
Another truth that I am clinging to lately is found in Romans 12:2. It says Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
The truth is, maybe I am being “set aside” by my peers. And maybe that’s okay? I certainly want to be approachable. I certainly want to be a person that exudes love and compassion; but if that is what is in my heart, THAT is what God sees. And THAT is what’s important.
I will continue fighting the battle. The prize I am striving for is far too precious to give up; and the price that has been paid is beyond comprehension.
My prayer is that you will find relatable content here. Have you been fighting a battle too? Do you struggle at work to stay on the straight and narrow? Man, it’s tough! What are some ways that you have found helpful in the fight for peace and joy? I would love to hear from you!
I never wanted to work outside the home. We have been married for 25 years, And for 23 of those years, this has been an on going issue in our home. I wanted to home school our daughter, take care of the house, tend to our garden, and serve my husband. I mean that is the biblical thing to do right? God would bless our efforts and our finances because I was doing what He calls women to do. Proverbs 31 was ( and still is) my go to scripture for how to be a godly woman.
Lets look at that scripture. Proverbs 31:10-31.
10 [a] An excellent wife who can find?
She is far more precious than jewels.
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will have no lack of gain.
12 She does him good, and not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She seeks wool and flax,
and works with willing hands.
14 She is like the ships of the merchant;
she brings her food from afar.
15 She rises while it is yet night
and provides food for her household
and portions for her maidens.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
17 She dresses herself[b] with strength
and makes her arms strong.
18 She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
Her lamp does not go out at night.
19 She puts her hands to the distaff,
and her hands hold the spindle.
20 She opens her hand to the poor
and reaches out her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of snow for her household,
for all her household are clothed in scarlet.[c]
22 She makes bed coverings for herself;
her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates
when he sits among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them;
she delivers sashes to the merchant.
25 Strength and dignity are her clothing,
and she laughs at the time to come.
26 She opens her mouth with wisdom,
and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27 She looks well to the ways of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women have done excellently,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands,
and let her works praise her in the gates.
I won’t dissect it word for word, but no where in that scripture does it say she MUST stay home. Is it easier to accomplish these virtues from home? Of course. Does it show a lot of faith to stay home and live on one income? Absolutely. Can a godly woman be a godly woman and still work outside the home? Yes, yes, and yes!
The thing is, I wanted to stay home. I wanted to set my own schedule. I wanted to set up meal plans and do the grocery shopping. I wanted to do the cooking and serve my family. I want, I want, I want…….!
It has FINALLY occurred to me, that it isn’t about what I want at all. It is about what God wants. And apparently, God wants me out in the mission field. Now when I read Proverbs 31, I read it with fresh perspective. I see that I am doing all the tasks of a Godly woman, simply by being a Godly woman in my heart.
The Eye of The Storm 